Why Do We SHOUT ?

Why Do We SHOUT ?


One day, a professor asked his students
'Why do we SHOUT instead of speak when we are ANGRY?'

All the students thought for a while. One answered 'Because we lost our cool.
That's why we SHOUT.'

Asked the professor again, 'But the person is just right next to you,
why can't we talk softly but have to SHOUT?'


Everyone gave their opinions but none was accepted by the professor.

Lastly explained by the professor 'When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart.
To mask the DISTANCE we felt,
we instinctively SHOUT instead of speak so the other party can hear us.'


'But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we drift apart further.
So we SHOUT even louder...'

'It is the opposite when we are in love. Not only we do not shout, we whisper into each other ears.
Why?'

'This is because our hearts are very close, almost never apart.
As our love deepen, we reach a state of communication where there is no need for words.'

'We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look,' concluded the professor.

'Therefore, when we are arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make our hearts drift apart.
WAIT a few days.
When you feel your hearts are no longer far apart, pick up the conversation and continue from there.'

slow dance

SLOW DANCE 慢舞
Have you ever你是否曾經
watched kids 看過孩子
On a merry-go-round? 玩旋轉木馬?
Or listened to 或傾聽the rain大雨
Slapping on the ground? 打落在地上的聲音?
Ever followed a 曾經追著
butterfly's erratic flight?飄乎不定地飛著的蝴蝶?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading 或凝視著太陽在夜色中
night? 漸漸褪色?
You better slow down. 你最好慢下你的腳步
Don't dance so不要舞的太快
fastTime is short. 時間短暫
The music won't音樂不會last永不停止
Do you run through each day你是否用飛的
On the 度過fly?
每一天When you ask How are you?當你問自己”你好嗎”?
Do you hear the 你有聽到 reply?回答嗎?
When the day is done當一天結束的時候，
Do you lie in your 你是否bed 躺在床上
With the next hundred chores仍是滿腦袋思考著
Running throughyour head? 上百件例行工作事項?
You'd better slow down 妳最好慢下來
Don't dance so不要舞的fast這樣快
Time is short.時間短暫
The music won't音樂不會last永不停止

Ever told your child, 是否曾經告訴你的孩子
We'll do it 我們留到tomorrow?明天再做?
And in your haste, 而在你的匆忙之中
Not see his sorrow?沒看到他的悲傷?
Ever lost touch是否曾因沒有聯繫,Let a good而失去friendship die很好的友誼?
Cause you never had time 就因為你總是沒有時間
To call and say,'Hi'撥個電話說聲”嗨”
You'd better slow down. 你最好慢下腳步
Don't dance不要舞得so fast.太快Time is short.時間短暫
The music won't音樂不會last永不停止
When you run so fast to get somewhere當你急著快點到達某處的時候
You 你miss half the fun of getting there.也錯過了途中一半的樂趣
When you worry and hurry當你憂心並急著through your day,度過你的日子
It is like an unopened gift... 像是一件未開的禮物
Thrown away 就這樣被丟棄 .
Life is not a 生命不是在race比賽
Do take it slower 確實的慢下來
Hear the 聽聽music音樂
Before the song is over. 在音樂結束之前。--------------------
meningful....